Roberta Fernandez
YOUR MIND STYLIST
Stop Wearing the Patterns You've Outgrown
You built the career, the business, the reputation. Along the way, you picked up emotional patterns that helped you get here and now cost more than they give. I help accomplished women see which ones still fit and release the ones that don't.
Does this sound like you?
If two or more of these are true, the Emotional Wardrobe™ Profile assessment below was built for you.
- The pressure to perform: You're excellent at what you do, and a quiet voice still says it isn't enough.
- The pressure to please: You say yes before you've checked whether you want to, and your own needs go last.
- The pressure to appear strong: Everyone leans on you. Almost no one sees what that costs.
- The pressure to carry it all: You can't rest without guilt, and busy has become your default setting.
- The pressure to keep achieving: You got what you worked for, and it doesn't feel the way you expected.
None of these is a flaw. Each is an emotional hand-me-down: a pattern you learned long ago, before you realized you had a choice.
Find Out Which One You're Wearing
What Are You Still Wearing?
I call them emotional hand-me-downs: patterns of thinking, feeling, and responding you learned along the way, often long before you realized you had a choice. They helped you get where you are. That doesn't mean you have to wear them forever.
- You wear emotional armor to avoid vulnerability.
- You wear performance to earn worthiness.
- You wear control to reduce fear.
- You wear busyness to avoid stillness.
- You wear perfectionism to avoid judgment.
- You wear emotional distance to avoid pain.
It's been so long that when you look in the mirror, you see these outfits as who you are. They're not. I help you recognize them and make more intentional choices in every area of your life.
Watch the welcome video!
Watching this video may be the best 7 minutes you spend all week!
Meet Roberta
I'm Roberta Fernandez, a Board-Certified Hypnotist and Integrative Emotional Intelligence Specialist, based in Henderson and Las Vegas, NV. I work with clients in person and online. For more than 20 years, I've helped individuals and organizations with the part of change that logic can't reach: emotion. My work blends neuroscience, emotional intelligence, hypnosis, and other tools I've refined over those years. The process is simple.
- Tailor what fits.
- Edit what doesn't.
- Restyle what comes next.
Let's clear the clutter from your emotional closet, and together, re-tailor your outfit into something that honors your true self. You don't need to become someone new; you simply need the freedom to become more fully yourself.
What Clients Are Saying
"You helped me rediscover myself and regain the confidence I had lost. The positive self-image and belief in myself have changed my life and set me free from my old fears. I cannot thank you enough!"
Bryce A.
"I remain really grateful for the work we did together nearly 9 years ago, and it comes up for me often. I still refer back to the book on emotions every week or so, and I still practice the techniques you taught me. Just thought I’d send you a little note to let you know your impact continues to resonate in my life and that I appreciate you."
Lauren W.
"Working with Roberta has been an experience I will hold onto for the rest of my life. She stayed focused on me each step of my journey. I am absolutely free from issues that I had held onto most of my life, that I dragged around like cement. Working with her was such a blessing, and I suggest everyone contact her to learn how you can help you live your best life!"
Vicki F.
"I worked with Roberta on emotional stress issues. After just a few sessions, I noticed a significant positive change! Roberta is professional, kind, always prepared, and is great with personalized follow-up! I’m more present, have found my voice, and learned I don’t need to take on the world’s problems!"
Bridget R.
Restyle every day in the House of MindStyling™ community
If you've taken the Emotional Wardrobe™ Profile Assessment, you already have a free Window membership. The Studio is your next logical step. It's a perfect blend of self-paced learning, coaching with Roberta, and learning from other members, at a price that pales in comparison to the everyday learning and tools you will get.
How We'll Work Together
Three steps, and the first two are free.
- Take the free Emotional Wardrobe™ Profile. Answer the questions in about 3 minutes and see which of the five emotional wardrobes you're wearing. You'll receive a guide matched to your result.
- Have a Mind Style Fit Conversation. Talk with Roberta for 60 minutes about what's no longer working, what you'd like to change, and whether private work is a fit. No obligation.
- Begin private work. Together we'll decide how best to work together, for how long, and what your investment will be; we will identify which patterns still fit and which you've outgrown, and then use hypnosis and other tools to replace them with ones that fit the life you want.
And of course, you can also explore my webinars, books, and courses to help you grow personally and professionally on your own, along with some of my other signature services.
If you are in Henderson or Las Vegas, NV, or anywhere online, schedule your free Mind Style fit conversation today!
Cleaning Out Your Closet
Working privately with me is where deep transformation happens. Unresolved emotions can cause a myriad of symptoms: lack of confidence, stress, bad habits and behaviors, imposter syndrome, and more. Your hypnosis sessions identify which emotional patterns still fit from what you've outgrown, replacing them with a mindset that actually fits the life you want to create.
LENS™
This is for individuals ready to expand their emotional intelligence, strengthen their identity, and step into their next level of personal and professional growth. Transform how you think, communicate, and lead.
Pocket Mindset™
Reset your mind. Rehearse your future self in minutes. Short, powerful guided experiences that help you regulate your nervous system, dissolve stress, and embody the identity you're growing into.
Organizational Culture Mind Styling
Workshops, trainings, and keynotes for teams and organizations who want to build cultures of emotional intelligence, clarity, and effective communication. Transform how your team communicates, thinks, and leads.
Learn Hypnosis
Ready to Stop Wearing What No Longer Fits?
Start with the free assessment and profile, or talk with Roberta directly. Either way, you'll know which patterns are yours to keep and which are ready to go.
Book your free Mind Style Fit Conversation to talk about what's no longer working, what you'd like to change, and whether private work with me is a fit. There's no pressure and no obligation, and you'll leave with clarity either way.
What to expect:
- We talk about where you are and what you'd like to feel instead.
- I explain how I work, including hypnosis and the other tools I use.
- If it's a fit, we talk through next steps and investment.
Prefer to talk by phone? Call 612-839-2295.